6 Things to Say Daily To Save Your Marriage
The hustle and bustle of life can easily erode conversation time with your loved ones, especially your significant other. We get so caught up in getting things done we forget at times how to keep connected. In our house we have so many things pulling us away from each other like running our businesses, taking care of our son and dog, and just maintaining the household. I have found just keeping up with saying these six daily phrases keep our marriage and connection strong.
Good Morning! - It seems simple but waking up in morning is a blessing that we take for granted. We say it to co-workers and complete strangers, why aren’t we saying it to the people we love the most?
I love you and have a great day - No on leaves the house with kiss and saying this. Even you leave for work before you spouse wakes up, send in a text or whisper it to them.
Did you eat today? - What always meant a lot to mean when I was homebound with a we born while my husband went to work, was when he check up on me in the middle of the day and make sure I ate. Not only did it show he cared, it usually started a conversation.
How was your day? The rose and thorn of the day. - Many times a “how was your day” could be a dead end conversation beginning and ending with a quick “fine.” Asked you love one what was the rose of their day; the best part. And then what was their thorn; the worst part.
What do you need? - This is probably one of the best questions to ask your love. It’s open ended so they have to think, it makes them feel like you care. But it also gives you chance to really know what they need from you, no guessing. Sometimes it can be as simple as a hug.
Good Night and I love you - Never, go to bed without saying this. Remember everyday is a blessing and you have someone you love to go to sleep and wake up to each day.
